As, you might be knowing that I am a proud mother of a baby, my sweet little Kuhu.
Yesterday one of my colleague friend, asking about her, said aapki gudiya to...... and believe me, this post has generated from that very single thought.
By nature, we classify, our baby girls, as a someone very fragile and delicate, as soft as a doll, a Gudiya!!! But I wonder, isn't we cultivating in them, that they belong to weaker section of society from start. What I feel, yes she is my doll, but not the eye candy one, she is someone who gives me strength to work harder, she makes me see world with new perception, a perception, I fail to see from an adult eyes. I have seen, she keeps trying new things, she fails , she falls, but she never give up. I learn so many things from her, she isn't someone who fears and hide, even when its dark, I have seen her moving towards light. She knows when to smile and make it correct, she has started making her own decision, whether right or wrong, she stands for them.
On seeing our main door open, she stepped on our door mat, and turned towards me, I felt she was saying to me, " This world is big Mom, but you see, you have given me wings that can take me higher, and I will never fear anyone". Every time I look at her, its just another learning chapter of my life. And then I ask this question again, when she is my strength and spirit in every possible way, we cannot say she will break so easily! I love her the most, but I know I have to let her fly free spirited, to learn and explore. I will bind no expectation , because there is nothing as the MOST SUCCESSFUL, when you feel contended and happy, that is the true meaning of life or true achievement.
Yesterday one of my colleague friend, asking about her, said aapki gudiya to...... and believe me, this post has generated from that very single thought.
By nature, we classify, our baby girls, as a someone very fragile and delicate, as soft as a doll, a Gudiya!!! But I wonder, isn't we cultivating in them, that they belong to weaker section of society from start. What I feel, yes she is my doll, but not the eye candy one, she is someone who gives me strength to work harder, she makes me see world with new perception, a perception, I fail to see from an adult eyes. I have seen, she keeps trying new things, she fails , she falls, but she never give up. I learn so many things from her, she isn't someone who fears and hide, even when its dark, I have seen her moving towards light. She knows when to smile and make it correct, she has started making her own decision, whether right or wrong, she stands for them.
On seeing our main door open, she stepped on our door mat, and turned towards me, I felt she was saying to me, " This world is big Mom, but you see, you have given me wings that can take me higher, and I will never fear anyone". Every time I look at her, its just another learning chapter of my life. And then I ask this question again, when she is my strength and spirit in every possible way, we cannot say she will break so easily! I love her the most, but I know I have to let her fly free spirited, to learn and explore. I will bind no expectation , because there is nothing as the MOST SUCCESSFUL, when you feel contended and happy, that is the true meaning of life or true achievement.
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