21-12-20-12

After so many rumors, after so much fear, after so much anxiety, I say HI to all of you to another shiny day!!!

Somewhere we all had this feeling to know what will happen on this epic day, will world finally stop rotating, or sun will hide somewhere in this unending universe. But I believe nothing of that sort really happened!

And again we woke up similarly and move to our mundane works of life. We heard same chirping of birds, saw same blue sky, even sun was bright and warm ( in Delhi) hugging us all in this cold December and giving away his warmth as mother does to her child. Nothing really changed, and life again started with same colorful dreams in her eyes.

But if you can silently listen what is hidden behind this unchanged world. Hear it very careful and make your own conclusions today, see God has given us another chance, to live the life, like he wants us to do; he created us, he filled life in us; and now is the time we realize its importance not for us, but for every small thing who is alive. It is time we start "anew" and realize if 21-12-2012 was not end of world but another chance for us to eradicate all the vices with out and with in, us.

The crime, the pain, which surrounds us it is time to rise above all of it. It is time we tell God he never did a mistake in making his most precious creation MAN.

If you cannot rise today, if you cannot leave the greed today , may be we don't get this chance again.

Lets hold each other hands

 and walk towards eternity together;

 lets not leave anyone behind;

 lets not lead this world in blind.

Lets become purest soul ever

And then welcome, beginning of something new forever.

Social Networking sites ahhh...

Google+, Facebook, Twitter.... wow such an amazing platform they have given us to be with people, and whom we in Social Networking sites call Friends!!!

We can be with people who are miles away, the distance is huge in physical sense but emotionally we can be connected always.

Wow such a nice description!!! Think again ... When it so difficult to cope with the real person with whom we live or meet regularly, how can we connect so easily with people who are miles and miles away. Yes we can hear to them, we can tell them, but truly all this is virtually good not practically correct. As we know Photoshop can change person's image, all these social networking sites can change person's identity.
HE can show any side of his appearance to us, and most of them land up showing bright and happy side.
We try to emphasize the beautiful points of our character ( go to any person profile and you can see there thoughts, there likes,  but what about the dislikes and bad habits they have ) , but person is not formed with only admirable qualities, there will be always an ugly side.
Lets face it we live in happy non existent world, cause when we will know the real person behind every facet this world of virtual would break down in pieces.
But believe me however relation they made between two humans; they brought a revolution in technology world. We care more how many notifications we have,  then how many bucks we have in our pockets.
Life is artificial, but still its active
World is real, hence its not enough!!!

Again same Reservation.....

Metro after so many days can be knowledgeable journey altogether. Standing in ladies compartment; I saw a girl having a friendly tiff with her accompanied friends, "Ohhh so you Brahman's, brought this caste system in India, you are the cause of this SC/ST quota system Now"

Ohh My God!!! Isn't it so true. When we started this differentiation to make our-self superior class in the social system, and we enjoyed our dominance over a decade and more. We created such classification not on Men's deed (known as "karmA") but on one's caste.

When this hierarchy gave us importance, we relished every bit of it but when it became a weak point for us, we criticized it. Isn't it like Nature's law, we cherished our supremacy now its their chance.
We say its partial when less deserving candidate gets the benefit, but that's what we preached in past, when son of king was honored being king successor, without the real test of courage.

We never thought of abolishing this caste system but criticized the reservation part, and secretly wished being a part of same. Why cant lets eradicate the root cause of it, rather then simply blaming one of us!!!

The Day we will understand that man is formed by own his actions, all these categorization will lose its meaning.

No reason to smile

I am true Indian, I love my country, I accepts her failures, I feel bad when someone says or does something wrong to her...But somehow I am not able to accept this "Kasab was hanged, Time to celebrate"; attitude of my fellow country-mates. Yes I know what he did, has no reason for giving him lesser punishment. When we hang Kasab, we tell so many of them, that we do justice. All the families, who were effected by him directly, feel the relief.

But why do I feel sad ??? My brain says Kasab was inhuman he killed so many innocents, but my heart asks inhumanity doesn't depend on number of people we kill !!! Its very simple killing an innocent is really inhuman, but killing a culprit don't make us humanely too. Truly, it was only way we can justify deaths of many, there is no other punishment we can think of other then hanging him till death. 

But we can do one thing through which we can advocate our action over his, by feeling the pain even in his death. Nobody won in this battle of benevolence, rather then DEATH. As sincerely its been said Death brings more death. Being human we cannot be happy on death of it; Kasab will always be son of Adam, and one of us.Only plausible feeling with his death is pain for all those who died naively. I comprehend penitent for everyone of us and believe one day his death will bring real happiness for all of us, when nobody would die his death!!!

willl willl willlllllll

Thought of writing a post and the randomness I show in writing one every-time. There isn't any particular pattern and why should I follow one....

I am a creative person by will, not by profession

I do things at my own pace, in my own style. There is no pressure of anyone whether I do it or not; ever!!!
What fun it would be, the outflow will directly depend on my mood........
And to the dismay of my readers, and for the happiness of my heart I end this post here only....tadaaaa....

Law and Order ... and MONEY ???

Today I read this statement :

I believe Salman Khurshid could not have embezzled Rs 71 lakh…It is a very small amount for a central minister

– BENI PRASAD VERMA,
Union minister of state for steel, on scam allegations against Salman Khurshid ( Reported from TimeofIndia Delhi edition, 17 October 2012 ) 

And I cant just help laughing. Scandals in crores is so much prevalent these days that it raises doubts in mind of normal being when a "Central Minister" get caught in scandals involving lakhs.
We twist and turn our minds, couldn't he get his hand fixed on higher value, does his power limits him to this much amount.
But my dear friends, it isn't that small for a "commoner ", and specially when it was for humanity; which of course these politician has buried in their own self coffins!!!!

And when I really think back the money scandal in which khurshid ( Even don't like to make 'K' capital for the cause he is unimportant to me now ) might be involved, was for less privileged people, and such doings will surely make them disabled and Handicapped for lifetime. Isn't it shame ???

Great thoughts ... small words

Sometimes we have to get really high to see how small we really are
– FELIX BAUMGARTNER, 

Before a goodnight sleep...

      My inner thoughts in middle of night provoked me to write a post. Yes I was feeling uneasy, some small incidence  incited this instinct in me. Just 5 minutes of uneasiness made me draw few answers which I cannot learn in past 24 years of earthly relations.
These crucial 5 minutes told me :
You form a very difficult personality, when your soul get confused of your decisions, how can people whom you talk once a month or more rarely can understand your pure thoughts.
It also told me Every relation has shell life, means it has a expiry!  But in this case u can always alter that date, what u need is take care of it, maintain it, but if u try to neglect it;dont despair over its end.

I easily understood what it meant! And yes it hurted me a bit; but truly my heart strong enough told me "Thats true! !!But there is another truth its not you always who did this. And even if you feel its your mistake since you realized it, you can ignore it cause IT WILL ALWAYS BE A SELFISH WORLD! !!"

Kritika

What I perceive

When I see the current situation at least for a "GENERAL" middle-class like myself; I wish, I could just close my eyes and avoid everything. But at other times, I feel, that I am a citizen of India and I have full rights to fight and ask for my rights. But like a busy bird, in her own nest & taking care of building it; I try to ignore the other-side of the world.

Somehow I feel I am most affected by two things :

1. When there is corruption at high level, Crores of rupees are digested by these obese ministers, 

whose waist-line keeps increasing and they hardly care for it!! I wonder when their digestive system 

will fail and give us some relief, in this drought of honesty and ethics.

2. I have started wondering that our favorite Bollywood stars, are becoming another reason for increasing our cost of living. It might shock you but this objection is not any other non-sense. And lets see the explanation for same:

They take money in 7-8 figure for every episode of our favorite channel/serial (Its entirely their decision what they charge for their art ). Then in between those serials there are advertisement, which are also performed by them only and same charges are applied to them too. 

If a channel is paying a high amount to an actor, wont it be getting more from the advertisements? And then why would an advertiser (they are paying to both channels and actors) remain in loss? They too would surely recover their cost from their consumers. Wantedly or Unwantedly, we are in that bracket of consumers.

And if these actors, in the name of charity, donate a high amount of their income, I wonder what good they would do for poverty stricken people who somehow are in that state due to them only.

The above is not just for Bollywood actors, the same is for cricketers.( You can add more)

Ohhh God!! all this is vicious circle, I start from a point and come back to same.

" How loud can I shout, or can I speak? When people, who are my role model in the fantasy world of mine, are eating my flesh in this biological World of DARWIN!!!" 

Shocked !!!

I have been seeing lots of reality shows lately. Ohhh !! No No ..... not the ones which showcase

ones expertise or some exuberant talent; but the ones which show the devil side of the so called 

"human beings". It leaves me shattered for days, I get depressed and reconcile in lots of thinking.

Words like humanity, care, love seem lost in this callousness of marsh. The foundation of our values 

shakes when you see one killing his own brother, a guardian becoming the life taker, friend 

stabbing from your back and countless other horrifying episodes. Have we forgotten the pain we felt seeing someone our crying in vain??

I pondered & then realized; fame, money and most importantly "EGO" does it all..... Money has taken away from us the essence of sweet smile when we help someone non-profitably. EGO has congested us with coldness, and when we see someone, we love, flourish and prosper more than us, all we can be is dementors (reference Harry Potter) in human form.

I really don't have answers to many question which have left me blank, all I can do is ask

myself where the end lies for this; and my heart, like an old man taking up his

stick in one and support of wall from other hand, stands up slowly and walks away quietly!!!!

The shows which have influenced me to write above, are follows :

Crime patrol

Gumrah

I am not sure if they are truly real incident as they say!

"President of India" : Do we have a say ?????

All these days, what I see in the newspaper is the twist and turn for presidential candidature.We know our constitution hasn't given much rights to the President of India directly. But isn't the fact that he (or she - Pratibha Patil being the 'efficient' one) being the head of Republic of India (that is what Wikipedia quotes at least), a good enough reason, that there should be unanimous decision in choosing him? It's always the case, that ruling party has a major say in choosing him. And this is the irony which has made us leave with no other option.

We, who choose our own prime minister (clarifying that we actually don't choose our own "PRIME MINISTER", but we choose which political party would present us with a prime minister). Given a bunch of choices we put our stamp blindly on a sheet, which will unfold (read 'shun') dreams of many in this Republic of India. And when we open our eyes, we see a person whom we are not even sure of & whether he would be able to lead us in any way. Without any much objection we accept him to be someone who will govern us concurrently!!!

But as always, we do "HOPE" that he might bring changes which all of us are eagerly waiting for. And to my amusement and everyone's despair, nothing much good occurs!!! And then, since we have given him another big task of choosing the President of India, he leaves no stone unturned in choosing someone who would unanimously be beneficial to him!!!

And here we wonder where we went wrong?? 

Surely not much of our mistake, but now there is a need to change those laws, to give us more encumbrance in choosing our own President and before that, the right to elect our own Prime minister. Yet again the same question arises of who would take initiative to change the law or pass the bill in parliament ?

And still I suspect, "Do we have a say????"....

http://kmhouseindia.blogspot.com/2012/05/presidents-of-india.html

Math ... uhhh

Ahh I have seen something like this many a times. And I fail to understand 

those, who fail to understand math!!!

I feel sad when people complicate something simple so easily.

What I find most interesting is that every problem

in mathematics has a conclusive answer.

An answer, which even in worst case scenario wont 

exceed 100 characters, ;)....

I thought about MATH literally

And here what I found :

 Ma^th

^{Something which is equivalent to Mother} 

^{And yes isn't it foundation of everything.....}

Finally I would like to say :

Female foeticide

Please see and give your vote here : http://satyamevjayate.in/

TTTTTea ?????...

I never thought Ill publish two post in a day,,,

As I never thought i'll start liking tea someday...

Still wondering if its possible. But truly I am mesmerized by this drink. 

I have started liking the strong flavor coming with every sip of half milk-half water i.e. TEA

I adore the gingerness of tea, strongly touching my throat and giving me feeling of symphony with this world.

But yes I know to what level I have to fall in love with it, a little more could land me in prison of 

"tea addict".

But my nose sniffs when at a distance there is water boiling with drop of ginger and cardamom; and smeared with Darjeeling tea. And left me wonder whats more fun to write about it or drink it in tranquility... ;) ;)

You and me ....

Like a candle,

swaying in wind

I was searching for u,

losing my hope gaining it again,

as when it is tickled with cold breeze;

moving from here and there

in the darkness of cold,

only brim of hope

lightening me alone!

I traveled,

thousands of mile,

inquest of u;

never knew how long

the journey;

just I chased u.

And when the end came up

I wasn’t sure

should I end my search here;

Cause to my amazement,

I was searching for you

everywhere

But I found

You Within me!!!

Shower your blessing

http://www.ashishwedskritika.com/

A bride to be...

From the old mouths we all have heard there was a time when 23 was a time a girl should be happily married and carrying her 2+2; but today when at age of 23, you say you are engaged; believe me you can experience more than dozen-full of different expressions.

This not all what she goes from; bearing from the hell lot of people queries to the big list of shopping bags she needs to buy, there is so much she needs to take care.

Sometimes you stand in middle of crowd and people would ask she is the one who gonna be bride soon, and you will be left pondering what you really missed to take care today!!!

She would google, what exactly is marriage and she would end searching on wiki “Marriage( or wedlock) is a social union or legal contract between people that creates kinship. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually..." which will have no connection with reality….

 

She would sometimes calculate the unnecessary fat which are adding unending glow to her face or unending pounds to her waist. From office to mall, she runs in weekend marathon!

From dance to getting ready for D day she needs everything updated.

And on the other side of coin, there is entirely a new world. A family with their open arms making space for her, in which she still needs to adjust.

It’s like that dot game where few points are connected well, but she still need put in a lot to make it a ‘perfect’. There will be friends, there will be cousins, there will be in laws and there would be a family!!!

She has some idea, but isn’t very sure. At this age of 23, what more lies ahead….


P.S. A idea given by a friend, so I thought better to utilize it then be late :)